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Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Unsaid and Unheard!



When you were born, world seemed to be so beautiful and more precious at that very moment. I witnessed your mother undergo unbearable pain to get you into this world and that’s when I realized the value of womanhood. And when you my daughter, was placed in my arms for the first time I realized that I am holding another goddess who has just arrived to spread happiness and love.
How beautifully you grew up to be very pretty woman, soft and tender, lovely and beautiful. With you my girl, I saw my dreams succeeding. You were my inspiration to achieve newer things and to dream big. Your smile makes my day and without which I refuse to start my day. Seeing my strong emotional bonding with you, your mom warns me that few more years I will have to get you married and that would leave an empty space in my life. I know that is true, but my angel, you are meant to meet someone special with whom you will realize all your dreams. I am waiting to see that day and cherish it forever.

But what changed this whole thing?
Today here I am standing and waiting for you to open your eyes once and see me, Please see me once my goddess, which gives me power to fight the cruel beasts who dared touching you.
It’s not easy for me to see you in this condition, But my daughter I have taught you to fight, Come on! Get up my soldier! Lets fight the cruel world together! Let there not be anymore cruelty on women. Let there not be a single such beast let loose.
Please my love, speak up and give orders to me to drag those cowardly bastards out. I am on my way to hunt them and torture them for they should beg for death and I will make sure they live long to suffer the pain everyday and curse themselves for all that they did.
Let me teach this very simple lesson to respect women and to control their libido! And how I wish the world sees what I am going to do to these rascals that any such dogs should not even dare to think of seeing or touching women against her will.
Now there is no time left to question about where is humanity? And how secure the society is! And so lets fight it together, let all you women be armed to face these brutality and kick these rascals so hard that let them not be left in the gender they were born.

Your mom has lost hopes on everything. She is breathing only to see you come back to life again. I am scared to confront her and I am feeling ashamed for not being there for you my love. I don’t want these words to go unsaid and unheard, so please I beg you my daughter, don’t give up on me. let us face and fight this together. Please for once come back to life, come back to us.


PS: Trying to voice the agony of all those Parents who's children are victims of such brutality, Praying for the young girl and her family. 

32 comments:

Amith Mendon said...

Heart-felt... very touching Ramya. Yes, lets all pray that the girl comes back to life and live life normally... and the cruel bastards suffer every second till they beg for death.

Ranjana said...

Touching. Tears rolled when I read this. Let the god give enough strength to these ladies and punish the evil soles till eternity...

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Rahul Bhatia said...

Very touching, Ramya! I too join you in the prayer for her to come out of the ordeal.

KParthasarathi said...

You have expressed well the universal anguish and the outrage at this monstrous barbarity inflicted on a young woman.While this has attracted much attention,such things are happening daily in countless places in the coutry without anyone being the wiser for it.Ways should found and new laws to be enacted by the country as one man to root out this menace when women could feel safe to move without fear around day or night.This incident should spur the conscience of the people in power to act immediately.

Tarun Shetty said...

Heart touching article Ramya..Sad to see these incidents happening in Mera Bharat where womens are considered as Devi(Goddess)!!!

shilpa said...

Very thoughtful post, Ramya! I even shudder at the thought of how the parents might be taking all these. Its the worse thing to see your own child go through all this and you are totally helpless!
I just hope the bastards are civilized enough to at least realize its a mistake.

Nivedita Chirantan said...

very touching. These kind of acts make you regret to be part of the same society. you have expressed the agony very well

ಅರವಿಂದ ಕುಲಕರ್ಣಿ said...

Excellent Ramya! Got really emotional with those words.

Ramya said...

@Amith Mendon: Yeah amith the incident is so bad and shameful that these criminals should be severely punished to warn every others to not to dare to do such things

@Ranjana: the situation in which that little girl is I dread to even think of what she is going through! Everybody who is reason for this should be severely punished here!

@Rahul Sir: Yes sir Prayers is all we are left with now!

Ramya said...

@KP: the brutality, inhumanity and numbness of the government has increased the rage in people. We feel helpless to the little girl who is suffering with so much pain at this very moment! I hope the laws are revised to severely punish such crimes!

@Tarun: Yeah very shameful incident indeed. :(

Ramya said...

@Shilpa: I never knew you have blog too :) will follow you!!!
Yeah shilpa incident is so bad and really scare. All I think is how she and her parents are handling this at this very moment! So wanted to voice their agony.

@Niveditha: yeah dear very bad incident touched my badly cant think of anything else I wish the criminals are severely punished

@Arvind Kulkarni: yeah the incident itself is so crule :(

Deepa said...

This kind of heinous acts will continue till the law comes up with a nerve chilling punishment for such brutes, until then the rage keeps growing in us!

Binu Thomas said...

Very touching! Ramya, we cannot even start to imagine what must be going through the victim's mind. We Indians have stooped to a whole new low now.. All we can do is to hope she recovers and strict punishment to be handed over.

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Bhavya HS said...

Very very touching...Got emotional while reading your article.
lets all pray that the girl comes back to normal life.

QA Engineer said...

can't appreciate you enough for your rightful-emotion-driven-post. This post takes you and your blog to a whole new level..

These incidents have happened before and people turned deaf ears. But I see a hope with this one..because I see people voicing their heart and an effort is being made to amend the retarded laws.
And other good hope is that the prime witness has come forward to give evidence and statement. God Bless him.. and God Bless the lady with the best of Life in the days to come and she should rise and shine..!!

Sorry to make this a lengthy comment.... but I read this somewhere..and wanted to share here... so that the words spread across.. and it is something that everyone should take away from this incident..

"Don't stop your daughters from going out alone BUT instead teach your sons to behave like humans"

Ramya said...

@Binu: Yeah and thats all we all can do now, Pray for her good health and pray for ourselves!

@Bhavya: Yeah dear very much hurt by the incident let pray for her speedy recovery

@QA Engineer: Thanks for the very inspiring and informative comment, please feel free to voice your concerns and opinions on the post I write.
Yes the last line tells it all! Basic Education is wrong! Now its time to change ourselves and pray for all these victims who are fighting their way out

Prashanth said...

Respect Women - ಇದು ಹಿಂದೂ ಧರ್ಮದ ಮೂಲಾಧಾರವಲ್ಲವೇ?? ಜಾಗತೀಕರಣದ ಅಮಲಿನಲ್ಲಿ ತೇಲಾಡುತ್ತಾ, ನಮ್ಮ ಭಾರತೀಯ-ಹಿಂದೂ ಸಂಸ್ಕೃತಿಯ ಆಚರಣೆಗಳನ್ನು ಗಾಳಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ತೂರಿಬಿಟ್ಟಿರುವ ನಾವುಗಳು ಇಂತಹ ಕ್ರೂರತೆಯನ್ನು ಎದುರಿಸುತ್ತಿರುವುದರಲ್ಲಿ ಆಶ್ಚರ್ಯವೇನಿಲ್ಲ..??

ಕ್ರೌರ್ಯಕ್ಕೆ ಕಮರುತ್ತಿರುವ ಅಮಾಯಕ ಜೀವಗಳಿಗೆ ಆಸರೆಯಾಗುವ ಸಂದೇಶ ಹೊತ್ತ ನಿಮ್ಮ ಈ ಬರಹಕ್ಕೆ ಸಾಷ್ಟಾಂಗ ನಮನಗಳು.

Jidhu Jose said...

No words to say anything

Snapshot | Reflections

Bikramjit said...

yes yes .. the little soldiers have ot get up for sure ..

touching I am sad and i dont know what ot say or do ..

Bikram's

Ramya said...

Prashanth: recent atrocities pushed me to write a post like this! yes education and severe punishments can only correct such things!

@JJose: Yeah cant express the shame we are facing as a nation

@Bikram: Entire nation is in that state, youth today have come forward and have taken measures to fight against such things lets see where we will go

rekspoursout said...

Really touching. Being a mother of two daughters, having a sis, a mother, and most of all, being a female myself, I couldn't stop crying at the brutality the girl was subjected to. A guy following you, teasing you, itself leaves you frozen and disturbed. So, I am just imagining what would have that poor soul gone through that night. Wish she comes back, strong and does get justice. In my prayers always.

Ramya said...

Reks: Hello Reks Welcome to chittrana,
You have very well described the fear in all of us, and the boundless pain is what I wanted to show in my blog.

Keep coming back.

QA Engineer said...

Thank you.

Ash said...

Very touching post. Society has to change its outlook - to stop blaming the victim. People need to teach their kids, esp sons, to respect everyone regardless of gender.

Do read my views too, on my blog.

Ashwini C N said...

Touched by the words Ramya. A powerful perspective, coming from the Mother. Now that she has left us for a better world where she would not have to undergo any pain or humiliation, may her soul rest in peace.

Ramya said...

@Ashwini C N: Yeah dear very sad and ashamed of ourselves :( I hope this comes to an end atleast now and people are educated well!!!!

Prashanth said...

It's my first visit to your blog, Ramya and I am glad to read your post. This is very touching, on one hand there is love and on the other there is pain and revenge.

I have read so many blogs on this topic and including mine, but none have expressed so beautifully as you have done. When you wrote this post, she was still alive and fighting. But unfortunately, as I write my comment, she is no more. Hope she is in peace. You have given a voice to all those parents who suffered silently when these barbaric acts were committed on their daughters. You have got a new follower...:)

Ramya said...

@Prashant: thats a very nice compliment you have given I am very happy to know that you have choosen mine over many other blogs you read... Thanks a lot for that...

Happy to have known you, Welcome to chittrana... and please keep encouraging.

Prashanth said...

For Bloggers who have not met or not seen, words are the best way to express or encourage fellow bloggers and will surely encourage you..:) Nimma blogs ododukke tumba santosha aagutte, yaakandre there is full of positivity and enthusiasm in your posts...Keep it coming...Cheers...:)

Prashanth said...

Hey don't mind but you forgot to add the letter 'h' at the end of my name in your reply comments...:)