Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass ...
Its about learning to dance in the rain!!!
There are many things in life that will catch your eye
but only a few will catch your heart... Pursue those

This is my small effort to make you smile for a while...






Friday, July 4, 2008

Smile please...


Smiling is one of the best feature that god has given to man alone. Don’t know what special he found in this creation of his that he gave this boon to only him. I always wonder there are so many things that are communicated in a smile. Let me mention few which are prominently seen around, they are Smiles for feelings like Happy, care, love, hatred, ego, weirdness, teasing, and also sometimes sadness. All this is communicated via a smile.

Here is a small observation that I have done in the area of ‘Smiles’. Now If you are smiling thinking that this girl has no better work, then let me tell you that is smile of weirdness but you can continue that cause I like that smile on your face.

Though smile has no age, let me begin the chemistry of smile from my college days. There was days when I had crush on a guy. I always waited for his smile, this is smile in love. Seeing this stupidity of mine my friends always smiled at me this is smiling to tease me. In the mean time I used to get back broad unwanted smile from the girl who was that guys’s official announced Girl friend. And this smile was Egoistic … Yeah I used to smile back to her and this one would be smile of rejection. But in college days there was 1000 reasons for smiles. So must say most infectious and very very epidemic is this smile in classrooms. This usually spreads from last benches and by the time it reaches first benches it would have turned to serious condition of smile that is laughter. This was the college days spent smilingly.

Then came the professional days probably after coming to this period, I realized there is one more important dangerous kind of smile that is “Professional smile”. Meaning of this is prominently dependent on, what is the time you get this smile and from whom you receive it. Lets continue this case study with example of the most dangerous species in our work life.

The Professional smiles of Manager, If this smile is received in morning when you come into office and he is in already it means “ Is this the time you come in and smile shamelessly to me???” if its mid day and you are in cafeteria it means “Don’t you have any better work other than doing research in Cafeteria?” in case you stay late in the evening and he meets you in office and smiles at you, don’t be very happy his smiles now means “ Oh you are still here chatting, doing nonsense and wasting company resources?” and sometimes if he crosses your cubicle with this smile this is means “ I am inspecting what you are doing” There are all chances of you being called to meeting after this smile!
And the worst part is technical trainings and meetings; here smile is used for communicating. Here smiles communicate things like “Nothing is entering my thick walled brain”, “I know all of these, why are they wasting time saying the same things again?”, “I am feeling sleepy”, “I am caught sleeping” and “Getting bored”.

To generalize more on smiles, at least in my office I don’t see any smiles on Monday even if I see, I see sad smiles which means 5 more days to bare pressure! But Friday by evening 5 o clock I must say I have seen so many different kinds of smile for which I am still on my research to find the explanations …

So these are my findings but I must tell you, I find immense pleasure in smiling to people and also receiving one back. What ever is the mood, condition, feeling all you need to do is smile to someone or smile to yourself, I tell you each moment becomes precious and memorable.

Friends, if you have smiled even once while reading this article my effort of writing this in notepad in domain training hiding from trainer and acting as though taking down notes has become worth while …

Ok then keep smiling, yes I love it when you do it thankssssssssssss.
(Dedicated to everyone who is smiling now...)

5 comments:

Pavitra said...

hey tht was really nice thing say abt a nice thing ""SMILE""....keep writing.

Vishal Sehgal said...

You can made people smile in any situation!!! no matter what they are doin...IT's your inbuilt quality!!!

:-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-)

Keep writing and making other smiles

One thing which i want to tell you about the SMILE article is that you have frame the life of a person from the happiest days(in college)to the professional Life.
which nobody hav evr seen in any article...


Thanks to You very much for this article....

Arun said...

Huhhahhahhahha.....................
Hahhuhhuhhuhhuhhu..................hihhihhihhihhihhihhi...............Hehe hehe.........................

sweetukavya said...

really very nice rammu! i dont know whr u get ideas for these articles frm!! u can start writing these articles for magazines,seriously!!
:) :) :) :)

chandrakanth said...

Office alli iro time ella smile mele research madta kutkondu, office alli jaasti kelsa antiya?? kidding...:)
good one... keep smiling :) :)