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Wednesday, December 8, 2010

May our friendship go long way...

Its really surprising how we become so possessive of things or somebody. It happens with me all the time I buy a doll and I am so tensed if someone touches it. I do a painting and am so worried if someone tries to see it closely! And my Hubs forget it I am so very inclined to him I can just tell the instances proving my possessiveness.

But apart from such things I am bit possessive about my friends too. I always assume friends who are close to me can never find another friend who is equivalent to me. But that cant be true always. I am about to tell a little incident which is related to my possessiveness…

I have lot of friends in office but not all are close to me. Very few people become exceptionally close to us, one such friend of mine is this guy who recently joined from another company to our company, seeing his lost looks I decided to talk to him thus began our friendship and it become very strong day by day as we both shared common interest and most importantly he spoke less which meant I could keep talking thus went all our working day talking to each other seeking help in professional and personal things and we became good pals, people around us also respected our friendship. As time passed, we had a new team member and she had to be with us. Now you know how I would have felt. But still I thought for him first priority was me, though we are grown ups child inside us never stops showing up. Once it so happened I accidentally visited his cubicle and he was writing an email and I observed it was a big email and it was addressing to the other friend of us this added to my jealousy and also asked him to show me the email. He refused to it and he just sent the email and closed it. I was very furious and I walked away from him and never spoke to him. Our other friend learnt about this somehow and she sent me back the email what he had typed to her and thus it goes!

Hey please see this, I want to gift this on her Birthday and our first friendship anniversary!

It was in 2010, 18th Nov to be precise. I had joined this new place of work.
I had made a couple of acquaintances but no good friends whom you enjoy spending time with and those with similar tastes. It’s always tough making new friends unlike kids who can connect instantaneously! And then it happened! You never really know what fate has in store for you. I used to see this lady who used to sit across my cubicle but little did I know that a year down the line she would go on to become one of my closest pals. I first spoke to her on her birthday 20 days after having joined there, when she offered me sweets. We soon started chatting and getting to know one another. We started having lunch and coffee together when our office shifted locations and hit it off in a big way. We soon became very close buddies. My days in office used to start and end talking her! Those innumerable hours spent in the cafeteria arguing about the hottest girl in the cafeteria, discussing the best scenes in Jaggesh's movies, helping one another through our anxieties! Wah Ee Dinagalu! These moments spent with her will always be one of the most memorable moments of my days I lost my friends when I made my first company switch but gained a best buddy in the form of Jalwa Masaledar Girl! Cheers to life :)

This left me speachless and I was ashamed being mean! I straight went to him and wished him on our first anniversary, and pledged not to be possessive.
Thanks a lot buddy you are a wonderful person. May our friendship go long way…


Prashanth said...

ತುಂಬಾ ಚೆನ್ನಾಗಿದೆ ರಮ್ಯ.

"ನೋಡಿದ್ದೂ ಸುಳ್ಳಾಗಬಹುದು, ಕೇಳಿದ್ದೂ ಸುಳ್ಳಾಗಬಹುದು; ನಿಧಾನಿಸಿ ಯೋಚಿಸಿದಾಗ ನಿಜವು ತಿಳಿವುದು" - ಈ ಹಾಡು ನೆನಪಾಯ್ತು :o)

ಸಾಗರದಾಚೆಯ ಇಂಚರ said...

Nice post Ramya
keep going

Ramya said...

Thanks neevu helidu tumba satya!

:) Thanks!